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What question would you most like answered?

Posted on Jan 14th, 2009 by ginlei : reality checkn' ginlei
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 14, 2009:

Shouldn't we all wonder why life isn't easier? Why do we have to make the mistakes others already have? Shouldn't there already be a manuscript (an easy one to understand) that has certain mistakes labeled for easy reference so when we see ourselves headed in those directions, we say "woo, someone done this and if I do it like them this bad thing will happen." Then again, how do we see our mistakes before we make them?
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Do you believe there is value in suffering?

Posted on Jan 14th, 2009 by ginlei : reality checkn' ginlei
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 11, 2009:

This is a very interesting question. What is the value of the African people suffering? Hasn't it been many, many years of their suffering? Disease, starvation, death. When I acknowedge that the same happens here in America, on our homefront. It makes the value of suffering easier for me. Without us suffering to make our lives right we would not be able to help others come out of the things we and our forefathers have. May the world be at peace, with harmony, joy and love be in our wings.
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What has given you the most strength?

Posted on Jan 14th, 2009 by ginlei : reality checkn' ginlei
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 10, 2009:

My life has given me the most strength, without being alive I would not learn how to choose, to love the mistakes that I have made in my life, or how to become the Godly woman I am destined to become. Without my life, I would not of had any strength to ever have children, to be able to Love without questions and to trust full-heartly. I am most grateful to those who helped in the process of my design. LOVE
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Tagged with: QaR, strength, life, experiences, growth

What was the biggest adventure of your past year?

Posted on Jan 14th, 2009 by ginlei : reality checkn' ginlei
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 31, 2008:

The biggest adventure of my life for 2008 was leaving a man at X-mas of 2007. After he moved me away from faimly in Florida, I got on a bus X-mas eve and arrived here in Oklahoma Xmas Day of 2007. Why Oklahoma and not back to Florida? Well, my sister lived here and my drug habit was there. Why was this the biggest adventure for 2008? One, I haven't ever been on a Greyhound before, much less alone! It was great! What wasn't great, was that shortly after I got here my sister and I came upon an agreement to disagree. We went our seperate ways. I have struggled this past year but not as much as I had on drugs. I have learned not to count on my faimly so much, that I can make it on my own and that it was ok to take my time to say yes on anything. Even though, I have been away from faimly this year, I have met others that have included me in theirs. This past year has been an wonderful experience and I am so looking forward to what this coming year will bring. Why? Because Xmas 2008 brought me a surprise of love from a man that I believe the Lord says is to mine for along time. Time will tell. May everyday be an adventure to us all. PEACE

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What do you love most about your life right now?

Posted on Jan 14th, 2009 by ginlei : reality checkn' ginlei
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 02, 2009:

I am grateful of my life right now becuase it is getting back on the path it supposed to be. I am in college again! a little scary, yet exciting! I have met a wonderful man who encourages me to be myself. Finally, someone that has dreams like mine. We like the same things, have good conversations and most of all we laugh. I have been praying for a man w/ his qualifcations. I knew of him, yet, not in my wildest dreams did I ever know that he had so much to offer. When things came out about his feelings, I was shocked and I have been fighting doubt. I have to keep reminding myself I do deserve this, the Lord knows our  hearts desires and why not now? Isn't that the way our Creator works? I Love my life because I am excited to see what comes next!

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What was the last experience that took your breath away?

Posted on Jan 14th, 2009 by ginlei : reality checkn' ginlei
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 17, 2008:

The most recent experience that took my breath away was going to the local mountian, Mt. Scott, this past weekend. Hopefully soon I will have pictures from the very top to share w/ you all but the Mt. itself did not take my breath. It was the adventure of climbing down, a little ways, and around to see every direction. The world is soo big! Yet, I do not believe the two visits before mattered much becuase I did not have my man there to help me climb from rock to rock, to scout out easier ways to climb or to be there in case I fell. That my freinds was the breath taker of all, there was no fighting, no embrassing anger from anyone. It was peaceful, graceful and respectful. AAAHHH! The harmony of it!
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What would you whisper as a wish for the dawning year?

Posted on Jan 14th, 2009 by ginlei : reality checkn' ginlei
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 01, 2009:

Even though the year has dawned already, I'd like to share that my whispered wish was for my boys to find their strength within so that they make the right decisions and if I could of screamed anything from the Mountian top it wouyld of been "I Love you, my baby boys, Come home, soon!" May this year bring us all our whispered or screamed prayers and wishes!
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What do you want most right now?

Posted on Jan 16th, 2009 by ginlei : reality checkn' ginlei
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 09, 2008:

The thing I would like most in my life right now is to speak w/ my children. They live w/ their father and they are at the age to make their own choice to talk but I feel that because of the way their father feels they are afraid to take that step. Thankfully, the Lord has given me pateince through this ordeal and when its the right time it will happen.
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What do you believe about love?

Posted on Jan 16th, 2009 by ginlei : reality checkn' ginlei
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for December 12, 2007:

I also believe there a different facets to love. Because Love is greater than all things. We are made of love ,from love w/ love by the greater being our creator. If our Creator did not have love he would of not taken time to process each and every aspect of his or her plan of successful existence for all kind.
Love is a deep, simple and confusing act. Love can make a dark world bright again. Once an individual finds their eternial love all negativity for anything disappears, but to get to the true love one must face all bitterness and unforgiveness in their hearts. Noone can have true deep love for anyone else unless they find it in themselves. That's my belief.
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