If you could comfort one person right now, who would it be?

The one person I would comfort, at this moment, would be my ex-husband. We were best friends once and we had two beautiful boys. We got together right after high school and were married when our oldest child was four months old. I told him I wouldn't marry him until our child was 2 yrs old just incase we learned we didn't like each other. He caught me of gaurd when we got our taxes back and in a whirlwind we got rings at a pawn shop, grabed his couson, my sister and interupted his Grandmother watching Matlock w/ Randy Travis appearing on it. We wore purple shirts, white jeans and were married in her living room!
Unfortuately, as we grew up, we grew apart and I thought our dreams changed. Now, atfer we've been devoriced for almost 7 years, I have discovered that our seperation was more than likely unnecessary. In my personal journey I have come to terms w/ the fact that my post-partium depression,after my scond son, should of been treated. If I could I would let him know it really wasn't either one of our faults, that I was wrong to be afriad that he couldn't be a good father, and as his ex-wife, I'm proud of him.